Retreat Overview
For years, you have been the man people count on – the one who handles it, fixes it, and keeps everything moving. For these four days, you get to set down that responsibility and give your full attention to yourself.
The Inner Edge Live is an immersive retreat with Rebecca Kordecki for men ready to take an honest look at what is no longer working, understand the patterns behind it, and decide what changes next.
Four days where no one needs you to hold it all together.
MORE THAN A BREAK FROM THE PRESSURE
From the outside, your life may look solid. You work, provide, solve problems, and keep showing up. But you may also feel more exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated than anyone realizes.
Maybe a breakup, betrayal, or loss has stayed with you. Maybe difficult conversations lead to anger or withdrawal. Or perhaps nothing is dramatically wrong, but you know you are not fully living your own life anymore.
Time away can offer relief. The Inner Edge Live gives you space to understand what you have been carrying and learn how to work with it differently.
Four days will not erase your past or fix your whole life. They can help you see your patterns more clearly, practice new responses, and make decisions from clarity instead of exhaustion.
You do not have to wait until everything falls apart to begin.
A ROOM WHERE YOU CAN BE HONEST
There are things men carry for years without saying out loud: the relationship that changed them, the pressure to keep providing, the anger they do not know how to express, or the loneliness no one sees.
At The Inner Edge Live, you will meet men whose lives may look different from yours but who understand what it means to carry more than they say.
The room is built on respect, privacy, and personal responsibility. You decide how much you share. There is no pressure to perform toughness, tell your entire story, or prove yourself to anyone.
What happened to you matters. What you choose to do next matters too.
WHO THIS IS FOR
Some men arrive after heartbreak or a major life change. Others feel successful on the outside but unsettled within. Some are tired of repeating the same patterns or carrying everything alone.
This retreat is for men willing to look honestly at their lives and take responsibility for what comes next.
SET DOWN THE PRESSURE
People rely on you, but you rarely let anyone know how much you are carrying.
RECONNECT WITH YOURSELF
You feel more exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated than you used to, and want to understand why.
MOVE THROUGH HEARTBREAK
A breakup, divorce, betrayal, or loss has affected your confidence and sense of who you are.
COMMUNICATE MORE CLEARLY
You shut down, withdraw, or become defensive when conversations get emotional.
BREAK REPEATING PATTERNS
You recognize familiar reactions or relationship patterns and are ready to respond differently.
FIND PRACTICAL TOOLS
You want useful ways to handle anger, stress, overthinking, and emotional pressure.
CONNECT WITH OTHER MEN
You want honest conversation with men who understand the weight of responsibility.
GET CLEAR ON WHAT’S NEXT
You have outgrown a version of yourself and want clarity about your decisions and direction.
You do not need to be at rock bottom. You only need to know that continuing exactly as you are is no longer enough – and be willing to do something differently.
Meet Rebecca Kordecki
Rebecca Kordecki brings more than 30 years of experience working with people and more than a decade of coaching men through heartbreak, anger, relationship patterns, self-doubt, and major life decisions.
She understands how pressure can become normal and how the patterns that once helped you cope can begin to limit your life.
Her approach combines direct coaching with breathwork, mindset work, nervous system regulation, visualization, movement, and emotional release. The focus is practical: helping you understand what is happening and find tools you can use beyond the retreat.
Working with Rebecca means:
- Honest feedback delivered with respect
- Space to speak without being judged
- Support in recognizing patterns and taking responsibility
- Practical tools connected to real situations
Rebecca created The Inner Edge Live to give men access to this work in a setting where they can step away from their usual roles, speak honestly, and focus on themselves.
EXPLORE THE INNER EDGE EXPERIENCES
Rebecca will guide the group through practical experiences that may include coaching, breathwork, movement, writing, visualization, and reflection. Each is designed to help you understand what you are carrying and practice tools you can use at home.
THE PRESSURE RELEASE
Create space to set down the weight of always holding everything together.
THE ANGER RESET
Understand your frustration and explore healthier ways to respond.
GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD
Work with overthinking, replaying conversations, and getting stuck in your thoughts.
CLEAR THE STATIC
Get clearer about what you are feeling, what you need, and what matters next.
THE LET GO
Work with heartbreak, rejection, and resentment that continue to take up space.
THE CONVERSATION
Clarify the truth you need to communicate, the boundary you need to set, or the decision you need to make.
You are not coming to become someone else. You are coming to access more of who you already are.
WHAT YOU CAN TAKE HOME
The goal is to return home with greater clarity and tools you understand how to use in everyday life.
- A clearer understanding of what drives your anger, withdrawal, or self-sabotage
- Practical ways to steady yourself before reacting
- Language for emotions you have struggled to explain
- Healthier ways to handle pressure in your life and relationships
- Stronger boundaries and greater clarity about what you will accept
- More trust in your ability to make difficult decisions
- Tools for heartbreak, overthinking, conflict, and emotional overload
- A personal plan for the conversation or change waiting at home
- Connection with men who understand what you are carrying
- A view of strength that includes honesty and asking for support
You are not coming to become an entirely different man. You are coming to reconnect with the man who has been buried underneath the pressure.
Are You Ready?
If you are ready to stop carrying everything alone and take an honest look at what needs to change, this is your invitation.
You do not need to arrive fearless. You do need to arrive willing.
YOUR FOUR-DAY INNER EDGE JOURNEY
Four days of direct teaching, live group coaching, guided experiences, and honest conversation with Rebecca Kordecki.
The retreat balances focused work with shared meals, quiet reflection, rest, and time to enjoy Alila Mayakoba. You may volunteer for coaching, submit a situation privately, or learn by observing work that resonates with your own experience.
The journey below outlines the focus of each day. The final schedule and session times will be confirmed before the retreat.
DAY 1 – ARRIVE + EXHALE
| You have been moving fast for a long time. The first step is slowing down enough to notice what you have been carrying. | |
| Meet the group, step out of your usual roles, and begin identifying what brought you here. There is no pressure to have a polished answer — just an honest starting point. |
DAY 2- GET HONEST
| Look beneath the reactions and begin understanding the patterns behind them. | |
| What is underneath the anger? What are you avoiding when you shut down? What has pressure, loss, or heartbreak taught you to believe about yourself? | |
| Through teaching, coaching, and guided reflection, begin seeing those patterns more clearly and recognizing what they have been costing you. |
DAY 3 – MOVE WHAT HAS BEEN STUCK
| Move deeper into coached work, guided release, and practical ways to regulate your emotions. | |
| Rebecca will guide experiences that help you work with what is present, using tools that may include breathwork, movement, writing, and visualization. Time for reflection and rest gives the work space to settle. | |
| Focus: Practice new ways to work with emotional pressure and loosen the grip of old patterns. |
DAY 4 – DECIDE WHAT CHANGES
| Bring the experience together and create a personal plan for the life you are returning to. | |
| Identify the conversation that needs to happen, the boundary that needs to be set, and the support you need. Decide how you will respond when an old pattern shows up again. | |
| Focus: Leave with clear priorities and practical next steps. |
PROGRAM DETAILS TO BE CONFIRMED
The four-day journey outlines the intended progression of the retreat. The final itinerary and session times will be confirmed before the retreat and may shift to support the group.
To support the retreat experience, guests are encouraged to remain alcohol-free throughout the weekend. Alcohol is not included in the retreat price.
FOUR DAYS TO CHOOSE YOURSELF
You have spent years becoming the man everyone can count on. This is your opportunity to give yourself the same attention.
Four days away from the noise, the demands, and the pressure to look like you have everything handled. Time to tell yourself the truth, work with what you have been carrying, and decide what happens next.
The Inner Edge Live is designed for an intimate group of 10–15 men.
Alila Mayakoba, Riviera Maya, Mexico
January 21–24, 2027
Return home clearer about who you are, what matters, and the choices ahead of you.
Your Venue Destination
Alila Mayakoba
Discover a quieter side of the Riviera Maya at Alila Mayakoba, an elegant beachfront hideaway immersed in the natural beauty of Mexico’s Caribbean coast. Surrounded by mangroves, tropical greenery, and calm turquoise waters, the resort offers a thoughtful blend of understated luxury and authentic Yucatán spirit. From restorative wellness rituals and exceptional culinary experiences to encounters with local culture and nature, every stay is an invitation to experience Mayakoba at a slower, more meaningful pace.
Retreat Inclusions & Booking Details
Reserve your place with a $750 non-refundable deposit. The remaining balance is due 30 days before the retreat. Spaces are exclusive and limited to ensure a personalized, transformative experience. Secure your spot today and join us for this life-changing retreat. Airfare is not included.
- Single Occupancy
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3,650
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- Three nights at Alila Mayakoba
- Three meals daily
- Live teaching with Rebecca Kordecki
- Group coaching
- Guided Inner Edge Live experiences
- Retreat materials
- Practical take-home tools
- Double Occupancy
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2,950
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- Three nights at Alila Mayakoba
- Three meals daily
- Live teaching with Rebecca Kordecki
- Group coaching
- Guided Inner Edge Live experiences
- Retreat materials
- Practical take-home tools